Nightmares in Children Hypnotherapy Brisbane
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Personalised Support for Recurring Nightmares, Bedtime Anxiety, Fear of Sleep and Waking Distressed
A child may seem completely settled during the day and become frightened as bedtime approaches.
They may worry about:
Having another nightmare
seeing frightening images
waking alone
monsters
someone entering the house
something happening to their family
being trapped in a dream
not being able to wake up
sleeping in the dark
returning to sleep after waking
Nightmares may leave a child:
Crying
shaking
calling for a parent
unable to settle
afraid to close their eyes
unwilling to sleep alone
exhausted the next day
anxious before bedtime
worried that the dream will come true
They may repeatedly say:
“I do not want to go to sleep.”
“What if I have the same dream?”
“The dream felt real.”
“I am scared to close my eyes.”
“Please stay with me.”
“I cannot sleep by myself.”
“What if the monster comes back?”
“What if something happens while I am asleep?”
“I do not want to dream.”
“I am scared it will happen again.”
Clive Westwood provides personalised hypnotherapy for nightmares in children in Brisbane. Sessions may help reduce bedtime anxiety, fear of recurring dreams, frightening mental imagery and emotional distress while supporting a calmer and safer relationship with sleep.
Appointments are available face-to-face at Clive’s Boondall hypnotherapy clinic on Brisbane’s northside and online throughout Australia where appropriate.
Hypnotherapy may complement support from parents, GPs, paediatricians, psychologists, school guidance staff, sleep professionals and other qualified healthcare providers.
It does not replace medical assessment, trauma treatment, sleep-disorder care or urgent mental-health support.
What Are Nightmares in Children?
Nightmares are distressing dreams that usually occur during sleep and may wake the child.
The child may remember:
Frightening people
monsters
animals
being chased
falling
being trapped
family members being harmed
school situations
accidents
death
separation
supernatural images
scenes from films or online videos
Occasional nightmares can be part of childhood.
Additional support may be helpful when nightmares:
Occur frequently
cause significant bedtime fear
affect school or behaviour
prevent the child sleeping independently
follow trauma
cause repeated night waking
lead to daytime anxiety
significantly disrupt the family
Nightmares Are Different From Night Terrors
Nightmares and night terrors are not the same.
With a nightmare, a child may:
Wake fully
remember the dream
seek comfort
describe what happened
remain afraid afterwards
With a night terror, a child may:
Scream
sit up
appear terrified
be difficult to wake
seem confused
have little or no memory the next day
Possible night terrors, sleepwalking, breathing problems or unusual night-time behaviour should be discussed with a healthcare professional.
Signs Nightmares May Be Affecting Your Child
Your child may:
Delay bedtime
repeatedly leave their room
ask a parent to stay
refuse to sleep alone
request lights to remain on
avoid talking about the dream
repeatedly describe the dream
wake at the same time each night
become irritable during the day
struggle at school
nap because of poor sleep
fear particular rooms or objects
become afraid of darkness
avoid films, stories or places connected with the dream
worry throughout the day about bedtime
The Childhood Nightmare Anxiety Cycle
A child has a frightening dream.
They wake distressed.
The next evening they begin thinking:
“It will happen again.”
“Sleep is not safe.”
“I need Mum or Dad beside me.”
“I must stay awake.”
“Closing my eyes will bring the dream back.”
The child becomes more alert and anxious.
Bedtime takes longer.
Sleep may become unsettled.
Another vivid dream occurs.
The cycle becomes:
Nightmare → fear of another nightmare → bedtime anxiety → unsettled sleep → more dream awareness → stronger fear
Hypnotherapy may help reduce the fear attached to the cycle.
Recurring Nightmares
Some children experience the same or a similar dream repeatedly.
The dream may involve:
Being chased
falling
being lost
a monster entering the room
family members disappearing
being unable to escape
school humiliation
being trapped underwater
an animal attack
someone breaking into the house
The child may begin expecting the dream before going to bed.
Fear of the Same Nightmare Returning
A child may believe that thinking about the dream will make it happen.
They may try very hard not to think about it.
The effort to suppress the image may make it feel even more present.
Hypnotherapy may help the child relate to the memory differently.
Fear of Going to Sleep
The child may not fear sleep itself.
They may fear what could happen after they fall asleep.
They may:
Stall
ask for food or drinks
repeatedly use the toilet
request another story
ask many questions
become upset
complain of physical symptoms
try to sleep in another room
Fear of Sleeping Alone
The child may feel safe only when:
A parent stays in the room
they sleep in a parent’s bed
a sibling is nearby
the door remains open
the light remains on
they can hear adults talking
The child may believe they cannot handle waking from a nightmare without immediate reassurance.
Fear of Closing Their Eyes
Closing the eyes may trigger:
Images from the nightmare
expectation of another dream
fear of losing awareness
fear of darkness
a sense of vulnerability
Fear of the Dark
Nightmares and fear of darkness may reinforce each other.
The child may imagine that darkness contains:
Monsters
intruders
animals
ghosts
hidden danger
A night light may provide temporary comfort.
The deeper fear may still require support.
Fear of Monsters
Young children may experience imagination as vivid and emotionally real.
They may fear monsters:
Under the bed
inside a wardrobe
behind curtains
outside the window
in the hallway
inside the dream
Telling the child that they are being silly may increase shame without reducing the fear.
Fear of Someone Entering the House
Nightmares may involve:
Burglars
strangers
attackers
someone taking the child
someone hurting the family
This may be influenced by:
News
films
adult conversations
a real event
school discussions
general anxiety
Reasonable home safety is important.
Constant checking or repeated reassurance may also strengthen anxiety.
Fear That the Dream Will Come True
Children may struggle to separate the emotional realism of a dream from real-world probability.
They may think:
“I saw it, so it could happen.”
“The dream was a warning.”
“Something bad will happen to Mum.”
“The monster knows where I live.”
Hypnotherapy may help strengthen the distinction between imagination and current reality.
Fear of Not Being Able to Wake Up
A child may worry that:
They will become trapped in the dream
nobody will hear them
they will be unable to move
the dream will continue forever
This may overlap with fear after sleep paralysis or unusual sleep experiences.
Possible sleep paralysis or other sleep concerns should be medically assessed where appropriate.
Fear of Returning to Sleep
After waking from a nightmare, the child may fear going back to sleep because:
The dream may continue
another nightmare may begin
they may lose control again
the room still feels frightening
They may remain awake for hours.
Nightmares After Watching Frightening Content
Nightmares may follow exposure to:
Horror films
violent videos
frightening games
disturbing social-media content
news footage
older siblings’ entertainment
scary stories
Children may not fully process what they have seen.
Reducing inappropriate content may be necessary.
Hypnotherapy does not replace age-appropriate media boundaries.
Nightmares After News or Social Media
Children may become frightened by stories involving:
War
accidents
natural disasters
crime
illness
death
missing children
Even brief exposure may create powerful imagery.
Nightmares After a Scary Story
A story may become more emotionally vivid at night.
The child may mentally continue the story or place themselves inside it.
Nightmares After Gaming
Games may contribute through:
Frightening images
intense stimulation
competition
violence
playing late at night
difficulty switching off
Screen routines and content should be age appropriate.
Nightmares and School Stress
A child’s nightmares may involve:
Teachers
being late
forgetting work
failing a test
being unable to speak
getting lost at school
being laughed at
being separated from parents
School-related anxiety may need direct support.
Nightmares and Bullying
Bullying may create dreams involving:
Being chased
humiliation
attack
exclusion
being trapped
nobody helping
Bullying must be addressed directly with the school and relevant professionals.
Hypnotherapy should not be the only response to an unsafe environment.
Nightmares and School Refusal
Nightmares may increase before school days.
The child may wake tired and fearful, making attendance more difficult.
School refusal requires coordinated family, school and professional support.
Nightmares and Separation Anxiety
A child may dream that:
A parent disappears
the family leaves them
they become lost
they cannot find home
something happens to a loved one
The child may then become more clingy during the day and at bedtime.
Nightmares and Fear of Death
Children may develop fear of death after:
A family loss
illness
a pet dying
hearing adults speak
seeing media
learning about death at school
The fear may appear in dreams.
Age-appropriate grief or psychological support may be helpful.
Nightmares After Bereavement
Dreams after a death may involve:
Seeing the person
losing them again
trying to find them
fear that another family member will die
frightening hospital images
Grief can affect sleep and dreams.
Hypnotherapy may complement bereavement support.
Nightmares After Illness or Hospitalisation
A child may have dreams involving:
Needles
doctors
pain
separation from parents
hospital rooms
machines
losing control
Medical trauma may require specialised psychological care.
Nightmares After Surgery
Even when surgery was medically successful, the child may continue to experience:
Fear
vivid memories
bad dreams
fear of hospitals
bedtime anxiety
Nightmares After an Accident
A child may repeatedly dream about:
A car crash
falling
injury
ambulance sirens
seeing another person hurt
Trauma-focused care may be appropriate.
Nightmares After a Natural Disaster
Storms, floods, fires or other events may create dreams involving:
Being trapped
losing the home
family separation
loud noises
evacuation
danger returning
Practical safety and trauma support may both be needed.
Nightmares After Family Conflict
Children may hear or witness:
Arguments
shouting
separation
threats
unpredictable behaviour
They may not understand the situation but continue processing it through dreams.
Nightmares After Parental Separation
A child may dream about:
Losing one parent
being forced to choose
families disappearing
moving homes
being left behind
Support should focus on reassurance, stability and age-appropriate communication.
Nightmares and Trauma
Trauma-related nightmares may involve direct memories or symbolic themes.
Possible trauma may include:
Abuse
assault
accidents
medical events
disasters
violence
bullying
sudden loss
frightening family events
Hypnotherapy should be used carefully and should not attempt to recover or confirm hidden memories.
Specialist trauma treatment may be necessary.
Nightmares and PTSD
A child with possible PTSD may experience:
Repetitive nightmares
flashbacks
avoidance
hypervigilance
strong startle responses
emotional withdrawal
changes in behaviour
sleep disturbance
PTSD requires assessment from an appropriately qualified mental-health professional.
Nightmares and Anxiety
Nightmares may occur alongside anxiety involving:
School
health
family
friendships
separation
storms
death
safety
performance
The dream may reflect the child’s general sense of threat.
Nightmares and Generalised Anxiety
A child may worry about many different areas during the day.
At night, those concerns may combine into vivid dream imagery.
Nightmares and Panic
A child may wake with:
Racing heart
rapid breathing
sweating
shaking
chest tightness
confusion
fear of dying
fear that the dream is still happening
Nightmares and Autism
Autistic children may experience additional factors involving:
Vivid imagery
sensory sensitivity
changes in routine
difficulty separating thoughts from current events
sleep disruption
intense interests
emotional processing
Hypnotherapy should be adapted respectfully.
The child’s communication style and sensory needs should be considered.
Nightmares and ADHD
ADHD may contribute through:
Difficulty settling
late-night stimulation
emotional intensity
inconsistent sleep routines
impulsive media use
racing thoughts
Hypnotherapy does not replace ADHD care.
Nightmares and Sensory Sensitivity
A child may become distressed by:
Shadows
noises
fabric
temperature
doors moving
sounds outside
changes in lighting
These sensations may become incorporated into dreams.
Nightmares and Medication
Some medications may affect:
Sleep
dream intensity
night waking
restlessness
Concerns should be discussed with the prescribing professional.
Do not stop medication without medical advice.
Nightmares and Fever
Fever or illness may cause vivid dreams.
A child who appears medically unwell should receive appropriate medical assessment.
Nightmares and Poor Sleep Routine
Nightmares may feel more disruptive when the child has:
Irregular bedtime
insufficient sleep
excessive evening screens
late caffeine exposure
overstimulation
inconsistent routines
A predictable sleep routine may help.
Nightmares and Sleep Deprivation
Poor sleep may increase:
Emotional reactivity
anxiety
vivid dreams
difficulty coping
daytime fatigue
Nightmares and Caffeine
Caffeine may affect sleep and anxiety.
Children should not rely on unqualified advice about caffeine or energy products.
Concerns should be discussed with a healthcare professional.
Nightmares and Night-Time Eating
Heavy, irregular or distress-driven eating may affect sleep for some children.
Dietary concerns should be addressed with appropriate professionals.
Nightmares and Snoring
Persistent loud snoring, gasping, breathing pauses or extreme daytime tiredness require medical assessment.
Sleep-disordered breathing may contribute to disrupted sleep.
Nightmares and Sleepwalking
Sleepwalking is different from a nightmare.
Medical advice may be appropriate when sleepwalking is:
Frequent
dangerous
associated with injury
accompanied by other unusual symptoms
Nightmares and Bedwetting
Nightmares may occur alongside bedwetting.
Both may be affected by:
Stress
sleep disruption
developmental factors
medical conditions
Persistent bedwetting requires appropriate assessment.
Nightmares in Younger Children
Young children may have difficulty explaining the dream.
They may express fear through:
Crying
clinginess
bedtime refusal
irritability
regression
stomach complaints
repeated questions
Nightmares in School-Aged Children
School-aged children may provide detailed descriptions and develop strong anticipatory fear.
They may avoid:
Camps
sleepovers
sleeping alone
discussing the dream
particular school topics
certain places
Nightmares in Teenagers
Teenagers may hide nightmares because they feel embarrassed.
They may:
Stay awake using a phone
sleep during the day
avoid talking to parents
use substances
become irritable
experience depression or anxiety
fear trauma-related dreams
Teenagers with severe or persistent nightmares may require psychological or medical support.
Fear of Sleepovers
A child may avoid sleepovers because they fear:
Crying at night
waking others
needing a parent
having a nightmare
being embarrassed
not being able to return to sleep
Fear of School Camps
School camps may feel difficult because of:
Shared rooms
unfamiliar environments
darkness
separation from parents
fear of nightmares
concern about being teased
A private plan with trusted school staff may help.
Fear of Sleeping Away From Home
The child may manage at home and become more anxious in:
Hotels
relatives’ homes
holiday accommodation
camps
hospitals
Dependence on a Parent at Bedtime
A parent may need to:
Lie beside the child
remain until the child sleeps
return repeatedly during the night
allow the child into their bed
This may become exhausting for the whole family.
The aim should be gradual confidence rather than sudden withdrawal of support.
Repeated Reassurance Seeking
The child may repeatedly ask:
“Will I have a nightmare?”
“Are monsters real?”
“Are you going to stay?”
“Will everyone be safe?”
“What if I wake up?”
“Can you check the room again?”
Reassurance may provide short-term relief.
The next question may quickly follow.
Checking the Room
A child may ask parents to check:
Under the bed
inside the wardrobe
behind curtains
windows
doors
the hallway
Repeated checking may unintentionally strengthen the belief that hidden danger is possible.
Keeping All Lights On
Lighting may provide comfort.
The family may gradually work towards a level of light that supports sleep while reducing fear.
Sleeping in the Parents’ Bed
This may provide immediate relief.
A gradual plan may be needed if the child and family want greater independence.
Avoiding Bedtime
The child may:
Become energetic
argue
request food
say they are not tired
ask endless questions
create delays
The behaviour may be driven by fear rather than defiance.
Talking About the Nightmare Repeatedly
Some discussion may help the child process the experience.
Repeatedly analysing every frightening detail before bed may increase the image’s emotional intensity.
Trying to Prove the Dream Was Not Real
Logical explanations may not immediately reduce emotional fear.
The child may understand the explanation while still feeling scared.
Why Telling a Child “It Was Only a Dream” May Not Be Enough
The dream may have felt completely real.
A more helpful response may acknowledge:
The fear was real
the dream has ended
the child is safe now
the body can settle
the image does not control the present
Why Shame Does Not Help
Comments such as:
“You are too old for this.”
“Stop being a baby.”
“There is nothing to be scared of.”
“You are keeping everyone awake.”
may increase:
Shame
secrecy
bedtime anxiety
emotional distress
Supporting a Child After a Nightmare
A calm response may involve:
Acknowledging the fear
helping the child orient to the room
reminding them the dream has ended
using a consistent settling routine
avoiding lengthy frightening discussion
returning to sleep when possible
Building a Predictable Bedtime Routine
A routine may involve:
Reducing stimulating content
preparing for the next day
a calm bath or shower
reading
quiet conversation
dimmed lights
a consistent bedtime
a short relaxation exercise
Reducing Frightening Media
Parents may need to review:
Videos
games
films
social media
news
content viewed by older siblings
Creating a Calmer Sleep Environment
Helpful changes may involve:
Comfortable temperature
suitable lighting
reduced noise
predictable objects
an agreed comfort item
reducing clutter that creates shadows
Using a Comfort Object
A comfort toy or object may help the child feel settled.
It should support security rather than become something the child believes has magical responsibility for preventing danger.
Learning to Change the Ending of a Nightmare
Some children may benefit from imagining a new ending.
The child may imagine:
Escaping safely
receiving help
becoming powerful
making the frightening figure smaller
turning the setting into something safe
waking and feeling proud
This approach is sometimes called imagery rehearsal.
A psychologist or other qualified professional may also use structured nightmare-focused techniques.
Learning to Make the Image Less Frightening
The child may imagine changing:
Size
colour
sound
distance
speed
facial expression
The goal is not to deny the experience.
It is to reduce the image’s power.
Learning to Distinguish Dreams From Current Reality
The child may practise noticing:
The room
the bed
familiar sounds
the current time
the people nearby
the fact that the dream has ended
Learning to Feel Safe at Bedtime
Hypnotherapy may strengthen ideas such as:
The bedroom is familiar
the body can relax
dreams are mental experiences
the child can wake and settle
frightening images can change
sleep can become safe again
Learning to Return to Sleep
A child may mentally rehearse:
Waking
recognising a dream
looking around the room
using a calming thought
settling the body
returning to sleep
Learning to Reduce Fear of the Next Dream
The child may move from:
“I must stop every nightmare.”
towards:
“If I have a dream, I can wake and cope.”
This reduces pressure to control sleep perfectly.
Learning to Allow Sleep
Trying hard not to sleep may increase exhaustion and fear.
The child may learn that sleep can happen without constantly monitoring for dreams.
Learning to Build Confidence Gradually
Progress may include:
Going to bed with less resistance
falling asleep sooner
waking less distressed
returning to sleep more easily
requiring less reassurance
sleeping independently for part of the night
discussing dreams with less fear
Learning to Recover After a Difficult Night
One nightmare does not mean:
Treatment has failed
the fear is returning permanently
the child cannot improve
every night will be difficult
How Hypnotherapy May Help Nightmares in Children
Hypnotherapy cannot guarantee that a child will never have another nightmare.
Personalised sessions may focus on helping the child:
Reduce fear of nightmares
reduce bedtime anxiety
reduce frightening imagery
feel safer sleeping alone
reduce fear of darkness
reduce fear of recurring dreams
mentally rehearse a different dream ending
improve confidence waking and resettling
reduce repeated reassurance seeking
build a calmer bedtime routine
strengthen emotional resilience
reduce stress-related dream patterns
improve confidence around sleepovers and camps
The goal is not to control every dream.
The goal is to help the child feel safer, calmer and more capable when dreams occur.
Why Choose Clive Westwood for Children’s Nightmare Hypnotherapy in Brisbane?
Helping Clients Since 2013
Clive Westwood has been helping clients through hypnotherapy since 2013.
His experience includes supporting children, teenagers and adults with anxiety, sleep fears, phobias, confidence, trauma-related distress and automatic emotional responses.
Personalised Sessions
Nightmares may involve:
Monsters
school
bullying
family safety
death
separation
illness
hospitals
accidents
storms
trauma
frightening media
sleeping alone
Sessions are adapted around the child’s age, development and individual fears.
A Child-Friendly and Non-Shaming Approach
The child is not treated as:
Silly
immature
dramatic
attention seeking
weak
The fear is acknowledged while helping the child build confidence.
Guardian Involvement
A parent or legal guardian should be involved for minors.
The child should also be willing and able to participate.
No Forced Disclosure
The child will not be forced to:
Describe every detail
relive traumatic experiences
reveal private information
close their eyes
sleep during the appointment
continue while overwhelmed
No False Memory Claims
Hypnosis should not be used to prove that a dream, image or suggested memory represents a real event.
Dreams and imagery are not reliable evidence that something occurred.
Safety and Professional Care Are Respected
Clive does not diagnose:
PTSD
sleep disorders
neurological conditions
breathing disorders
abuse
medication effects
medical causes of disturbed sleep
Appropriate professionals should assess these concerns.
Support Alongside Other Professional Care
Hypnotherapy may complement:
GP care
paediatrics
psychology
psychiatry
trauma treatment
school guidance
sleep services
autism or ADHD support
family counselling
bereavement care
No False Guarantees
Clive does not guarantee:
Complete removal of nightmares
perfect sleep
immediate independent sleeping
one-session success
no future night waking
an exact number of sessions
Brisbane Northside Clinic
Face-to-face appointments for nightmares in children are available at Clive’s Boondall hypnotherapy clinic on Brisbane’s northside.
Online appointments are also available throughout Australia where appropriate.
What Happens During a Children’s Nightmare Hypnotherapy Appointment?
The appointment begins with a calm, age-appropriate discussion.
Clive may ask:
How often do the nightmares occur?
Does the child remember them?
Is the same dream recurring?
Is bedtime anxiety present?
Does the child sleep alone?
Did the nightmares begin after an event?
Are school stress or bullying involved?
Has frightening content been viewed?
Are night terrors, sleepwalking or bedwetting present?
Does the child snore or gasp?
Is medication involved?
What would calmer sleep allow the child and family to experience?
The child is not pressured to give graphic detail.
Clive explains hypnosis in a simple and reassuring way.
The child remains aware and responsive.
They do not lose control.
A personalised session may include:
Reduced bedtime fear
calmer mental imagery
increased confidence sleeping
a changed nightmare ending
a safe internal place
confidence waking and resettling
reduced fear of darkness
reduced fear of recurring dreams
positive rehearsal of bedtime
increased confidence for sleepovers or camps
Can Hypnotherapy Help Nightmares in Children?
Hypnotherapy may help reduce the fear, anxiety and imagery connected with recurring nightmares.
Can Hypnotherapy Stop Nightmares Completely?
No result can be guaranteed.
The aim may be fewer nightmares, reduced distress or improved ability to return to sleep.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Recurring Nightmares?
It may help the child change the emotional response and mentally rehearse a safer ending.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Sleeping?
It may help reduce the association between sleep and danger.
Can Hypnotherapy Help a Child Sleep Alone?
It may support gradual confidence.
The process should remain appropriate for the child and family.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Monsters?
It may help reduce frightening imagery and strengthen a sense of safety.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of the Dark?
It may help reduce the threat response connected with darkness.
Can Hypnotherapy Help After a Frightening Film?
It may help reduce the emotional impact of remembered images.
Parents should also review media access.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Trauma Nightmares?
It may complement trauma treatment when used carefully.
A qualified trauma professional may need to lead care.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Nightmares After Bullying?
It may support sleep anxiety.
Bullying must still be addressed directly.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Nightmares After Bereavement?
It may help reduce fear and distress.
Grief support may also be appropriate.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Night Terrors?
Night terrors are different from nightmares.
Medical or sleep assessment may be required.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Sleepwalking?
Sleepwalking may require medical and practical safety assessment.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Autistic Children?
It may be suitable when adapted respectfully.
Sensory needs, communication and predictability should be considered.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Children With ADHD?
It may support settling, anxiety and imagery.
It does not replace ADHD care.
Can Hypnotherapy Replace a Psychologist?
No.
Psychological care may be essential where trauma, severe anxiety or other mental-health concerns are present.
Can Hypnotherapy Replace a Sleep Specialist?
No.
Possible sleep disorders require professional assessment.
Will the Child Be Unconscious?
No.
The child remains aware and able to communicate.
Will the Child Lose Control?
No.
Hypnosis does not remove judgement, values or choice.
Will the Child Have to Close Their Eyes?
No.
They can engage in a way that feels comfortable.
How Many Sessions May Be Needed?
The number of sessions varies depending on:
Age
frequency of nightmares
how long the pattern has been present
trauma
anxiety
bullying
bereavement
fear of sleeping alone
autism or ADHD
medication
sleep disorders
family support
current professional care
individual responsiveness
Some children seek support after a short period of recurring nightmares.
Others require broader treatment involving trauma, anxiety, grief, school refusal or a sleep disorder.
No ethical practitioner can guarantee an exact outcome or number of sessions.
When Should Medical Assessment Be Prioritised?
Arrange medical assessment when nightmares or disturbed sleep involve:
Loud snoring
gasping or breathing pauses
seizures
loss of consciousness
fever
significant daytime sleepiness
sleepwalking with safety risks
repeated night terrors
medication changes
persistent headaches
unusual neurological symptoms
sudden major changes in behaviour
symptoms that concern the parent
When Should Psychological Support Be Prioritised?
Arrange appropriate mental-health support when nightmares:
Follow trauma
involve abuse or violence
are connected with bullying
cause school refusal
cause severe anxiety
lead to depression
involve self-harm themes
include suicidal thoughts
significantly change the child’s behaviour
prevent normal daily functioning
When Should Urgent Help Be Sought?
Call Triple Zero on 000 when:
The child or another person is in immediate danger
there is risk of self-harm
there is risk of harm to another person
a serious medical emergency is occurring
abuse or immediate safety concerns are present
For urgent support in Australia:
Call Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800.
Call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
Call the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467.
Attend the nearest hospital emergency department.
Contact the child’s GP or treating mental-health professional.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are Nightmares Normal in Children?
Occasional nightmares are common.
Support may help when they become frequent, distressing or disruptive.
Why Is My Child Suddenly Having Nightmares?
Possible contributors include:
Stress
frightening media
illness
school pressure
bullying
family change
trauma
medication
disrupted sleep
Why Does My Child Remember Every Detail?
Nightmares may wake the child during a stage of sleep where dream recall is stronger.
Why Is My Child Afraid to Sleep?
The child may associate sleep with losing control and experiencing another frightening dream.
Should I Let My Child Sleep in My Bed?
That is a family decision.
Immediate comfort may help, but a gradual plan may be needed where the family wants independent sleep.
Should I Keep Checking for Monsters?
Repeated checking may unintentionally strengthen the belief that danger could be hidden.
A calm and consistent response is usually more helpful.
Should I Tell My Child the Dream Was Not Real?
It may help to say that the dream has ended while also acknowledging that the fear felt real.
Can Nightmares Cause Daytime Anxiety?
Yes.
A child may remain worried, tired or emotionally unsettled the next day.
Can School Stress Cause Nightmares?
It may contribute.
Can Bullying Cause Nightmares?
Yes.
Bullying requires direct intervention.
Can Frightening Videos Cause Nightmares?
Yes.
Children may continue processing vivid material during sleep.
Can Nightmares Be a Sign of Trauma?
They can be.
Nightmares alone do not prove trauma, but additional assessment may be needed.
Can Nightmares Be a Sign of Abuse?
Nightmares do not by themselves prove abuse.
Any disclosure or genuine safeguarding concern should be taken seriously and referred appropriately.
Can Nightmares Cause Bedwetting?
Nightmares and bedwetting may occur together, but other developmental or medical factors may be involved.
Can Nightmares Affect School Performance?
Poor sleep may affect concentration, mood, attendance and learning.
Can Hypnosis Make My Child Forget the Dream?
The goal is not to erase memory.
It may help reduce fear and change how the child responds to the image.
Can Hypnosis Create False Memories?
Suggestive questioning can affect memory.
Hypnotherapy should not be used to confirm whether a dream or image represents a real event.
Is Online Hypnotherapy Available for Children’s Nightmares?
Yes. Online appointments are available throughout Australia where appropriate.
Where Is Clive Westwood’s Brisbane Clinic?
Clive Westwood’s hypnotherapy clinic is located in Boondall on Brisbane’s northside.
Book Hypnotherapy for Nightmares in Children in Brisbane
Your child does not need to go to bed believing they must fight against sleep.
They do not need to feel ashamed because a dream frightened them.
They can learn that a nightmare has a beginning and an end.
They can wake, recognise the room and allow their body to settle.
They can imagine a different ending.
They can feel safer closing their eyes.
They can gradually sleep with less reassurance and greater confidence.
They can return to sleep without believing the frightening image controls the rest of the night.
The goal is not to guarantee that every dream will always be pleasant.
The goal is to help your child feel safer, calmer and more capable before, during and after sleep.
Clive Westwood provides personalised hypnotherapy for nightmares in children in Brisbane, supporting suitable children experiencing recurring nightmares, bedtime anxiety, fear of sleeping alone, frightening imagery and difficulty returning to sleep.
Appointments are available face-to-face at the Boondall clinic on Brisbane’s northside and online throughout Australia where appropriate.
Book a children’s nightmare hypnotherapy appointment with Clive Westwood today.