Sports Anxiety for Children Hypnotherapy Brisbane
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Personalised Support for Competition Nerves, Fear of Mistakes, Low Confidence and Performance Pressure
A child may love their sport and still become extremely anxious before training, games, races, grading or competition.
They may appear excited at first and then suddenly:
Complain of stomach pain
feel sick
cry
refuse to get dressed
ask to stay home
become angry
go quiet
lose confidence
say they want to quit
perform very differently from how they do in training
They may repeatedly think:
“What if I make a mistake?”
“What if everyone laughs at me?”
“What if I let the team down?”
“What if the coach gets angry?”
“What if I lose?”
“What if I forget what to do?”
“What if I am not good enough?”
“What if the other children are better?”
“What if Mum or Dad is disappointed?”
“What if I freeze?”
Clive Westwood provides personalised sports anxiety hypnotherapy in Brisbane for suitable children who want support with competition nerves, confidence, fear of failure, overthinking and pressure.
Sessions may help reduce anticipatory anxiety, physical tension, fear of judgement and the emotional pressure that can interfere with a child’s enjoyment and natural sporting ability.
Appointments are available face-to-face at Clive’s Boondall hypnotherapy clinic on Brisbane’s northside and online throughout Australia where appropriate.
Hypnotherapy may complement qualified coaching, psychology, paediatric care, physiotherapy, school support and other appropriate professional services.
It does not replace medical assessment, injury rehabilitation, concussion management, safeguarding, qualified coaching or professional mental-health treatment.
What Is Sports Anxiety in Children?
Sports anxiety is a strong fear or pressure response connected with taking part in sport.
It may occur before:
Training
games
races
fights
grading
school sport
club sport
trials
finals
performances
competitions
Some nervousness is normal.
The anxiety may need additional support when it causes:
Panic
repeated avoidance
stomach pain
sleep problems
refusal to participate
emotional outbursts
loss of enjoyment
reduced confidence
fear of making mistakes
school or family conflict
thoughts of quitting a sport the child once enjoyed
Signs Sports Anxiety May Be Affecting a Child
A child may:
Perform well in training but struggle in games
cry before competition
complain of feeling sick
repeatedly ask for reassurance
avoid taking risks
hesitate when action is needed
become upset after small mistakes
fear the coach
worry about other children watching
refuse to attend trials
avoid asking for the ball
hide behind teammates
become very angry after losing
replay mistakes for hours
say they are “bad” at the sport
become afraid of disappointing parents
The Childhood Sports Anxiety Cycle
A competition approaches.
The child imagines:
Making a mistake
losing
being laughed at
disappointing adults
being shouted at
looking weak
letting the team down
The body responds with:
Racing heart
tight muscles
nausea
shaking
rapid breathing
stomach pain
urgent toilet needs
an urge to escape
The child then:
Hesitates
plays too cautiously
overthinks
avoids the ball
forgets instructions
freezes
asks to go home
The performance may become less natural.
The child then thinks:
“I knew I could not do it.”
The cycle becomes:
Competition cue → fear of failure → physical anxiety → hesitation or avoidance → reduced performance → stronger future fear
Hypnotherapy may help interrupt this learned pattern.
Competition Anxiety in Children
Competition anxiety may appear before:
Team games
swimming carnivals
athletics
martial arts grading
Muay Thai fights
gymnastics competitions
dance performances
tennis matches
school sports days
representative trials
The child may be happy during practice and become overwhelmed when:
Scores are recorded
parents are watching
teams are selected
trophies are involved
the event feels important
Training Confidence but Competition Anxiety
A child may feel comfortable during training because:
The environment is familiar
mistakes are expected
the result does not count
the coach is helping
there is less attention
During competition, the child may begin thinking about:
Winning
losing
disappointing others
being judged
selection
mistakes
Hypnotherapy may help the child access the same natural skills they use during training.
Fear of Making Mistakes
The child may become afraid to:
Pass
shoot
tackle
attack
defend
try a new skill
answer the coach
take responsibility
They may play safely to avoid blame.
This can reduce confidence and enjoyment.
Fear of Losing
Losing may feel like proof that:
The child is not talented
they are a failure
the other children are better
the coach will be disappointed
parents will be upset
they should stop trying
Children may need help learning that losing is part of sport.
Fear of Letting the Team Down
A child may take too much responsibility for:
Missing a goal
dropping a catch
losing possession
conceding a point
making the wrong pass
forgetting a position
A team result is rarely caused by one child alone.
Fear of Disappointing Parents
Children are highly sensitive to:
Facial expressions
body language
tone of voice
the drive home
sideline comments
comparisons
post-game analysis
A parent may intend to help while the child experiences pressure.
Fear of Disappointing the Coach
A child may fear:
Being benched
being dropped
being shouted at
being compared
losing approval
being embarrassed in front of the team
A fearful coaching environment may increase anxiety.
Fear of Being Shouted At
Some children become highly anxious around loud or critical coaches.
They may:
Freeze
avoid asking questions
hide injuries
become scared to make decisions
lose enjoyment
want to quit
Hypnotherapy should never be used to make a child tolerate abusive or unsafe coaching.
Fear of Teammates Judging
The child may worry teammates will think they are:
Bad at the sport
slow
weak
scared
responsible for losing
not good enough
This may cause them to withdraw socially as well as physically.
Fear of Being Laughed At
A child may fear teasing after:
Missing
falling
losing
forgetting a move
being hit
making a visible mistake
Bullying should be addressed directly with the club, school or relevant organisation.
Fear of Other Children Being Better
Comparison may involve:
Speed
strength
size
skill
selection
trophies
playing time
praise from adults
The child may stop noticing their own progress.
Fear of Bigger or Stronger Opponents
Opponents may appear:
Taller
heavier
faster
more aggressive
more experienced
The child may feel defeated before the event begins.
Fear of Physical Contact
Contact anxiety may occur in:
Rugby
football
martial arts
Muay Thai
boxing
basketball
hockey
other contact sports
The child may fear:
Being hit
being tackled
falling
pain
embarrassment
injury
Safety, coaching, protective equipment and age-appropriate contact rules remain essential.
Fear of Being Hit in Muay Thai or Martial Arts
A child involved in Muay Thai, kickboxing, boxing or martial arts may fear:
Sparring
being hit
freezing
losing
disappointing the trainer
appearing weak
forgetting combinations
entering the ring
Hypnotherapy may support composure, confidence and trust in training.
It should not encourage reckless aggression or ignoring injury.
Fear of Sparring
Sparring may trigger anxiety because it is:
Unpredictable
physically close
challenging
observed by others
Sparring should remain under qualified supervision and match the child’s age, skill and readiness.
Fear of Injury
A child may worry about:
Breaking a bone
concussion
pain
reinjury
losing their place
missing school
disappointing the team
Medical clearance and rehabilitation should guide return to sport.
Returning After Injury
A child may be physically ready but still fear:
Contact
running
jumping
using the injured area
pain returning
another long recovery
Hypnotherapy may complement physiotherapy and medical guidance.
Fear After a Concussion
Concussion requires medical management.
A child should not return to sport until appropriately cleared.
Hypnotherapy does not replace concussion protocols.
Fear of Pain
The child may become highly alert to:
Normal muscle fatigue
soreness
small knocks
tightness
discomfort
New, severe or unexplained pain requires medical assessment.
Fear of Freezing
The child may fear becoming unable to:
Move
make a decision
remember the game plan
respond to the coach
begin the event
Going Blank Under Pressure
A child may understand instructions during practice and forget them during competition.
Anxiety may narrow attention and reduce access to familiar information.
Overthinking During Sport
The child may think about:
Where to stand
what the coach said
the score
previous mistakes
who is watching
what happens if they lose
instead of responding naturally.
Paralysis by Analysis
A skill that normally happens automatically may become difficult when the child tries to control every movement consciously.
Hypnotherapy may help rebuild trust in practised skills.
Fear of Taking Action
The child may hesitate before:
Passing
shooting
tackling
defending
attacking
starting a move
The fear may be:
“What if I choose wrong?”
Fear of Being the Goalkeeper
Goalkeepers may feel:
Highly visible
responsible for goals
unable to hide mistakes
watched by everyone
One mistake may feel larger than the many successful decisions made during the game.
Fear of Taking a Penalty or Free Throw
The child may feel that everyone is watching and waiting.
They may fear:
Missing
letting the team down
being laughed at
replaying the moment later
Fear of Individual Sports
Individual sports may feel difficult because:
Responsibility feels personal
mistakes are highly visible
there is nobody to share the result
the score feels like a judgement of the child
Fear of Team Sports
Team sports may involve:
Letting others down
being blamed
communication
selection
social comparison
fear of being left out
Fear of Trials
Trials may make a child feel:
Watched
judged
compared
afraid one mistake will decide everything
worried about being rejected
Fear of Not Being Selected
A child may interpret not being selected as:
“I am not good enough.”
“The coach does not like me.”
“I will never improve.”
“Everyone else is better.”
Selection decisions may involve many factors.
Fear of Being Dropped
A child may feel every training session is a test.
This can make them less playful, less creative and more anxious.
Fear of Performing in Front of Parents
Some children feel more pressure when family members attend.
They may worry about:
Being watched
disappointing them
being corrected afterwards
hearing sideline comments
being compared with siblings
Fear of Performing in Front of a Crowd
A crowd may increase awareness of:
Mistakes
appearance
noise
expectations
family watching
classmates
Fear of Being Filmed
The child may worry about:
Mistakes being recorded
videos being shared
watching themselves later
embarrassment on social media
Parents and clubs should respect privacy and safeguarding requirements.
Sports Anxiety and Stomach Pain
Anxiety may contribute to:
Stomach aches
nausea
diarrhoea
urgent toilet use
reduced appetite
Persistent or severe symptoms require medical assessment.
Sports Anxiety and Vomiting Fear
A child may fear feeling sick or vomiting before sport.
This may overlap with fear of vomiting.
Sports Anxiety and Shaking
The child may notice shaking in the:
Hands
legs
voice
body
They may become frightened that others will notice.
Sports Anxiety and Tight Muscles
Tension may affect:
Movement
speed
balance
coordination
accuracy
endurance
Sports Anxiety and Breathlessness
A child may breathe rapidly before activity and feel tired before the event starts.
New or unexplained breathing problems require medical assessment.
Sports Anxiety and Panic Attacks
A child may experience:
Racing heart
shaking
dizziness
nausea
chest tightness
derealisation
fear of fainting
urgent escape
Repeated panic may lead to avoidance.
Fear of Fainting During Sport
Fainting or near-fainting during exercise requires prompt medical assessment.
Do not assume it is caused only by anxiety.
Sports Anxiety and Sleep
A child may struggle to sleep before:
Competition
grading
trials
finals
an important game
They may replay possible mistakes or worry about being tired.
Sports Anxiety and Perfectionism
The child may believe:
Every performance must be excellent
mistakes are unacceptable
losing is failure
rest is weakness
they must always improve
Perfectionism may reduce enjoyment and increase burnout.
Sports Anxiety and Self-Criticism
After a mistake, the child may say:
“I am useless.”
“I always ruin it.”
“I am the worst.”
“I should quit.”
Children often repeat the language they hear around them.
A supportive environment matters.
Replaying Mistakes
The child may replay:
Missed shots
lost points
falls
coach reactions
mistakes
embarrassing moments
long after the event is over.
Fear of Repeating a Mistake
One mistake may become a prediction:
“It will happen again.”
“I always fail under pressure.”
“I cannot trust myself.”
Fear of Success
A child may also fear:
Higher expectations
harder competition
more attention
jealousy
pressure to keep winning
Pressure to Win
Children may feel pressure from:
Parents
coaches
teammates
clubs
schools
themselves
A result-focused environment can make sport feel like a test of worth.
Parental Pressure
Parents may unintentionally increase anxiety by:
Giving constant instructions
criticising after games
comparing the child
focusing only on results
discussing money and sacrifices
becoming upset with officials
replaying every mistake in the car
Sideline Coaching
Too many instructions from the sideline may confuse the child.
They may struggle to choose between:
The coach’s direction
the parent’s direction
their own judgement
The Drive Home After Sport
The child may dread:
Questions
criticism
silence
disappointment
technical analysis
comparison
A period of emotional recovery may be helpful before discussion.
What Parents Can Say
Supportive responses may include:
“I enjoyed watching you.”
“You worked hard.”
“How are you feeling?”
“You do not have to talk yet.”
“One result does not define you.”
“What did you enjoy?”
“I am proud of your effort.”
What Parents Should Avoid
Parents should avoid:
Calling the child weak
comparing them with others
shouting instructions
criticising teammates
blaming officials
promising victory
threatening to withdraw support
ignoring pain or injury
making approval depend on results
Harmful Coaching Environments
Warning signs may include:
Humiliation
threats
body shaming
excessive punishment
unsafe training
ignoring injury
inappropriate physical contact
intimidation
fear-based control
Hypnotherapy should never be used to help a child tolerate abuse.
Safeguarding concerns should be reported appropriately.
Sports Anxiety and Bullying
Bullying may occur through:
Teasing
exclusion
mocking mistakes
body comments
threats
social-media posts
hazing
Bullying requires direct intervention.
Sports Anxiety and ADHD
ADHD may affect sport through:
Distractibility
impulsivity
emotional intensity
frustration
forgetting instructions
inconsistent focus
Hypnotherapy does not replace ADHD treatment.
Sports Anxiety and Autism
Autistic children may experience additional challenges involving:
Noise
whistles
crowds
changing routines
uniforms
touch
unclear instructions
unpredictable play
group communication
Hypnotherapy should be adapted respectfully.
Practical accommodations may also be helpful.
Sports Anxiety and Sensory Sensitivity
A child may become overwhelmed by:
Loud crowds
whistles
bright lights
touch
protective equipment
changing rooms
strong smells
The anxiety may not be only about performance.
Sports Anxiety and Learning Differences
A child may struggle with:
Multi-step instructions
written game plans
sequencing
processing speed
remembering positions
Coaches may need to present information differently.
Sports Anxiety and Social Anxiety
A child may fear:
Talking to teammates
changing rooms
group travel
being watched
asking questions
joining new teams
Sports Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem
The child may believe:
“I am not athletic.”
“I am always the worst.”
“Nobody wants me on the team.”
“I cannot do anything right.”
Sports Anxiety and Depression
A child may lose:
Motivation
enjoyment
energy
hope
interest in activities
Hypnotherapy does not replace treatment for depression.
Sports Anxiety and Trauma
Past experiences may include:
Bullying
harsh coaching
injury
humiliation
family pressure
unsafe contact
accidents
Hypnotherapy should be trauma informed.
Burnout in Children’s Sport
Burnout may involve:
Loss of enjoyment
constant fatigue
irritability
refusal to train
reduced motivation
fear of disappointing adults
feeling trapped
Children need:
Rest
free play
school balance
family time
age-appropriate training
choice
Overtraining
Possible signs may include:
Persistent fatigue
repeated injury
reduced performance
poor sleep
irritability
frequent illness
loss of motivation
Medical and coaching assessment may be needed.
Fear of Resting
A child may believe:
They will fall behind
the coach will be angry
teammates are training more
rest means laziness
Recovery is part of sport.
Body Image Pressure
Children may feel pressure about:
Weight
size
strength
appearance
uniforms
comparison
coach comments
Body shaming is not acceptable.
Eating Concerns in Children’s Sport
Warning signs may include:
Skipping meals
fear of weight gain
rapid weight loss
compulsive exercise
food guilt
dizziness
fainting
obsession with body size
Specialist paediatric, psychological and dietetic care may be required.
Energy Drinks and Supplements
Children should not rely on:
Energy drinks
pre-workout products
fat burners
stimulant products
unregulated supplements
Questions should be discussed with qualified healthcare and sports professionals.
Learning to Focus on the Next Action
Instead of thinking about:
Winning
losing
selection
the crowd
previous mistakes
disappointing others
the child may return attention to:
The next pass
the next movement
the current instruction
their position
the immediate task
Learning to Separate Sport From Self-Worth
The child is more than:
A score
a result
a trophy
a ranking
a selection decision
a mistake
Sport is something they do.
It is not their entire identity.
Learning to Allow Nerves
The goal is not always to remove every nervous feeling.
A child may learn:
“I can still play while feeling some butterflies.”
Learning to Reinterpret Adrenaline
A child may learn that:
A faster heartbeat can mean readiness
excitement and anxiety can feel similar
energy can help the body prepare
nervousness does not automatically mean danger
Learning to Trust Training
The child may mentally rehearse:
Letting practised skills happen
listening to one clear instruction
responding naturally
making a decision and continuing
Learning to Recover After a Mistake
A simple reset may involve:
Noticing the mistake
using a short cue word
relaxing the shoulders
looking at the next task
returning attention to the game
Learning to Use a Reset Cue
A cue might remind the child:
“Next.”
“Reset.”
“Focus.”
“Keep moving.”
“One moment.”
The cue should remain simple.
Learning to Reduce Self-Criticism
The child may move from:
“I am terrible.”
towards:
“That did not work. I can try the next thing.”
Learning to Compete Without Proving Worth
The child may learn:
“I am here to play, learn and use what I have practised.”
rather than:
“I must win so people will be proud of me.”
Learning to Accept Uncertainty
The child cannot control:
Officials
opponents
teammates
weather
every result
every mistake
They can practise responding to the next moment.
Learning to Visualise Constructively
Hypnotherapy may include age-appropriate imagery of:
Arriving calmly
warming up
noticing butterflies
starting
following instructions
making a mistake and recovering
continuing
finishing with pride in effort
Imagery should not promise victory.
Learning to Prepare for Winning and Losing
Confidence includes learning to:
Win respectfully
lose safely
accept feedback
learn
return to training
remain the same valuable person
Learning to Enjoy Sport Again
The child may reconnect with:
Movement
learning
teammates
fun
challenge
personal improvement
play
Gradual Exposure to Competition
A gradual plan may involve:
Watching training
joining warm-ups
taking part in a short drill
playing part of a game
entering a smaller event
increasing participation gradually
Exposure should be safe, consent based and appropriate for the child.
How Hypnotherapy May Help Sports Anxiety for Children
Hypnotherapy cannot guarantee winning, selection, trophies or perfect performance.
Personalised sessions may focus on helping a child:
Reduce competition anxiety
reduce fear of mistakes
reduce fear of losing
reduce fear of disappointing others
reduce fear of being judged
reduce overthinking
reduce physical tension
reduce pre-event nausea
reduce avoidance
improve confidence
improve focus
trust practised skills
recover after mistakes
mentally rehearse competition
feel safer returning after injury
separate self-worth from results
reconnect with enjoyment
The goal is not to make a child fearless or overly aggressive.
The goal is to help them participate with greater calm, confidence and enjoyment.
Why Choose Clive Westwood for Children’s Sports Anxiety Hypnotherapy in Brisbane?
Helping Clients Since 2013
Clive Westwood has been helping clients through hypnotherapy since 2013.
His experience includes supporting children, teenagers and adults with anxiety, confidence, fear of failure, panic, public performance and sports pressure.
Personalised Sessions
The anxiety may involve:
Team sports
individual sport
Muay Thai
martial arts
swimming
football
rugby
soccer
basketball
gymnastics
dance
trials
injury
coach pressure
parental pressure
Sessions are adapted around the child’s age, sport and individual triggers.
Child-Friendly and Non-Shaming Support
The child is not treated as weak, lazy or difficult.
Anxiety may occur because the sport matters to them and they want to do well.
Guardian Involvement
A parent or legal guardian should be involved for minors.
The child should also be willing to participate.
No Forced Performance
The child will not be required to:
Perform their sport during the appointment
fight or spar
compete in front of strangers
relive injuries in detail
make prolonged eye contact
continue while overwhelmed
remain in an unsafe sport environment
Safety Comes First
Clive does not encourage children to:
Ignore pain
hide concussion symptoms
train while medically unsafe
become recklessly aggressive
use unsafe supplements
overtrain
tolerate abusive coaching
prioritise winning above health
Support Alongside Coaches and Professionals
Hypnotherapy may complement:
Qualified coaching
sports psychology
GP or paediatric care
physiotherapy
exercise physiology
concussion care
psychology
school support
dietetics
safeguarding services
No False Guarantees
Clive does not guarantee:
Winning
selection
a trophy
complete removal of nerves
a particular result
one-session success
an exact number of sessions
Brisbane Northside Clinic
Face-to-face sports anxiety hypnotherapy appointments for children are available at Clive’s Boondall clinic on Brisbane’s northside.
Online appointments are also available throughout Australia where appropriate.
What Happens During a Children’s Sports Anxiety Hypnotherapy Appointment?
The appointment begins with a calm and age-appropriate discussion.
Clive may ask:
What sport does the child participate in?
When does the anxiety become strongest?
Is training easier than competition?
What does the child fear most?
Are mistakes replayed?
Are parents, coaches or teammates part of the pressure?
Is injury involved?
Are stomach aches, nausea or shaking present?
Has the child talked about quitting?
Is the sporting environment safe?
What would feeling more confident allow the child to enjoy?
Clive explains hypnosis in a simple and reassuring way.
The child remains aware and responsive.
They do not lose control.
A personalised session may include:
Reduced anticipatory worry
reduced fear of mistakes
calmer body responses
improved focus on the next action
stronger trust in training
mental rehearsal of participation
confidence recovering after mistakes
a simple reset cue
reduced fear of disappointing adults
stronger separation between performance and identity
greater enjoyment of sport
Can Hypnotherapy Help Sports Anxiety in Children?
Hypnotherapy may help reduce competition nerves, overthinking, physical tension, fear of mistakes and loss of confidence.
Can Hypnotherapy Improve a Child’s Sports Performance?
It may support focus, confidence and emotional regulation.
It cannot guarantee a particular performance or result.
Can Hypnotherapy Help a Child Who Trains Well but Struggles in Games?
It may help reduce pressure and overthinking that interfere with natural performance.
Can Hypnotherapy Stop Competition Nerves?
It may reduce their intensity.
The goal does not need to be complete calm.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Losing?
It may help the child see losing as an event rather than proof of failure.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Making Mistakes?
It may help the child recover more quickly and focus on what happens next.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Letting the Team Down?
It may reduce excessive responsibility and improve confidence making decisions.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of the Coach?
It may support confidence and communication.
Unsafe coaching must be addressed directly.
Can Hypnotherapy Help a Child Who Wants to Quit?
It may help explore whether anxiety, pressure, burnout or loss of enjoyment is involved.
It should not force the child to continue.
Can Hypnotherapy Help After Injury?
It may support confidence after medical clearance.
It does not replace rehabilitation.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Fear of Contact?
It may support anxiety where contact is medically and developmentally appropriate.
Qualified coaching and safety remain essential.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Children in Muay Thai?
It may help reduce competition anxiety, freezing and fear of being hit while supporting composure and trust in training.
It should not encourage uncontrolled aggression.
Can Hypnotherapy Make a Child More Aggressive?
The goal should be controlled confidence, commitment and appropriate assertiveness, not aggression.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Pre-Competition Stomach Pain?
It may reduce anxiety-related stomach symptoms.
Persistent or severe symptoms require medical assessment.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Panic During Sport?
It may support panic-related anxiety after appropriate medical assessment.
Can Hypnotherapy Help Sleep Before Competition?
It may reduce racing thoughts and pressure.
Persistent sleep concerns may require further assessment.
Can Autistic Children Have Hypnotherapy for Sports Anxiety?
It may be suitable when adapted respectfully.
Sensory needs, communication and predictability should be considered.
Can Children With ADHD Have Hypnotherapy?
It may support anxiety, focus and emotional regulation.
It does not replace ADHD care.
Can Hypnotherapy Replace Coaching?
No.
Technique, tactics and safety remain with qualified coaches.
Can Hypnotherapy Guarantee Selection?
No.
Selection depends on many factors outside hypnotherapy.
Will the Child Be Unconscious?
No.
They remain aware and able to communicate.
Will the Child Lose Control?
No.
Hypnosis does not remove judgement, values or choice.
How Many Sessions May Be Needed?
The number of sessions varies depending on:
Age
sport
severity of anxiety
fear of failure
perfectionism
injury history
coach or parental pressure
panic symptoms
ADHD or autism
trauma
burnout
family support
willingness to practise mental skills
individual responsiveness
Some children seek support for one upcoming competition or grading.
Others require broader support involving social anxiety, bullying, trauma, burnout or school-related concerns.
No ethical practitioner can guarantee an exact result or number of sessions.
When Should Medical Assessment Be Prioritised?
Arrange appropriate medical assessment for:
Chest pain
fainting or near-fainting
severe breathing difficulty
suspected concussion
repeated headaches after contact
seizures
unexplained dizziness
significant pain
rapid weight loss
severe fatigue
repeated injury
symptoms that concern the child or parent
Do not assume every physical symptom is caused by anxiety.
When Should Sport Be Paused?
The child should not continue when:
A medical professional has advised rest
concussion is suspected
severe pain is present
loss of consciousness has occurred
breathing is unsafe
equipment is unsafe
the environment is abusive
competition rules require withdrawal
the child is medically unwell or unable to participate safely
When Should Additional Mental-Health Support Be Considered?
Additional support may be appropriate when sports anxiety:
Causes severe panic
leads to school refusal
causes depression
involves eating concerns
follows bullying or abuse
causes self-harm
includes suicidal thoughts
creates major family conflict
is linked with trauma
causes complete loss of enjoyment
pressures the child to continue despite injury
Support may involve:
A GP
psychologist
sports psychologist
paediatrician
school guidance officer
eating-disorder specialist
trauma specialist
safeguarding service
crisis service
Immediate Mental-Health Crisis Support
Call Triple Zero on 000 when:
The child or another person is in immediate danger
there is risk of self-harm
there is risk of harm to another person
a serious medical emergency is occurring
overdose or severe intoxication is possible
For urgent support in Australia:
Call Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800.
Call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
Call the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467.
Attend the nearest hospital emergency department.
Contact the child’s GP or treating mental-health professional.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Sports Anxiety Normal in Children?
Some nerves are common.
Support may help when anxiety causes panic, avoidance, stomach pain, loss of enjoyment or major performance disruption.
Why Does My Child Perform Well in Training but Not Competition?
Competition adds pressure, attention, scores, selection and fear of mistakes.
Why Does My Child Feel Sick Before Sport?
Anxiety may contribute to nausea and stomach pain.
Persistent symptoms should be medically assessed.
Why Does My Child Freeze During Games?
Anxiety may narrow attention and interfere with practised automatic skills.
Why Does My Child Become Angry After Losing?
Anger may cover disappointment, shame or fear of letting others down.
Why Does My Child Replay Every Mistake?
The mind may be trying to prevent the mistake happening again.
Excessive replay often reduces confidence.
Should Parents Analyse the Game Immediately Afterwards?
Many children benefit from time to settle before discussing performance.
Should I Tell My Child They Will Win?
Encouragement is helpful, but promises about outcomes may increase pressure.
Can Parental Pressure Cause Sports Anxiety?
It can contribute, even when the parent is trying to help.
Can a Strict Coach Cause Anxiety?
Yes.
Fear-based coaching may increase tension, avoidance and loss of enjoyment.
Should a Child Continue a Sport They No Longer Enjoy?
The child’s wellbeing, safety and preferences should be taken seriously.
Hypnotherapy should not force participation.
Can Hypnosis Make a Child Win?
No.
Hypnotherapy cannot control opponents, officials, teammates or results.
Can Hypnosis Make a Child Fearless?
A complete absence of fear is not realistic or always safe.
The aim is calmer and more proportionate confidence.
Can Hypnosis Improve Focus?
It may support attention and reduce disruptive overthinking.
Can Hypnosis Help a Child Recover After Losing?
It may reduce shame, catastrophic thinking and prolonged replay.
Can Hypnosis Help Before Trials or Grading?
It may reduce selection pressure and support natural performance.
Can Hypnosis Help Before a Fight?
It may support composure and confidence in a properly supervised, age-appropriate combat-sport setting.
Is Online Children’s Sports Anxiety Hypnotherapy Available?
Yes. Online appointments are available throughout Australia where appropriate.
Where Is Clive Westwood’s Brisbane Clinic?
Clive Westwood’s hypnotherapy clinic is located in Boondall on Brisbane’s northside.
Book Sports Anxiety Hypnotherapy for Children in Brisbane
A child does not need to spend the days before every game, race, grading or competition imagining failure.
They can learn to notice butterflies without treating them as proof that they cannot perform.
They can make a mistake without believing the whole event is ruined.
They can focus on the next movement instead of the final result.
They can trust the skills they have practised.
They can listen to coaching without interpreting every instruction as criticism.
They can lose without believing they are a failure.
They can win without feeling pressured to be perfect next time.
Most importantly, they can reconnect with the enjoyment that made them want to play in the first place.
The goal is not to guarantee victory or remove every nerve.
The goal is to help the child participate with greater confidence, resilience, focus and enjoyment.
Clive Westwood provides personalised sports anxiety hypnotherapy in Brisbane for suitable children experiencing competition nerves, fear of mistakes, overthinking, performance pressure, physical anxiety and loss of confidence.
Appointments are available face-to-face at the Boondall clinic on Brisbane’s northside and online throughout Australia where appropriate.
Book a children’s sports anxiety hypnotherapy appointment with Clive Westwood today.